Christmas and New Year’s Day
Some days before Christmas, all the women of the village started
preparing for the big feast. The
preparations included cleaning of the house, dusting and cleaning
of the furniture.
On Christmas day, people went to the church.
After the service they received communion and they exchanged
wishes and kisses.
Thereafter, they returned to their homes
and the entire family sat on the table for the traditional
soup “avgolemoni” (made with eggs, lemon and rice) or trachana,
in a pleasant environment.
On New Year’s Day they played cards (Shemes,
Poka, Poker) in coffee shops and in different houses. This
custom survives to this day.
Epiphany
On the day of the epiphany, all the housewives made “loukoumades”
(fried honey puffs) and ate them with their families. One
old tradition said that “kalikantzaroi” (goblins) came to
the village and roamed at night scaring the people. So, women
threw some “loukoumades” on the roofs of their houses believing
that “kalikanztaroi” would eat them and leave the village
quietly.
Lent Period
The lent period begins on the Sunday of the Prodian Son and
continues till the Sunday of “Tyrofagos” (last day of the
Carnival).
Usually during this period, a lot of people masqueraded and
went to friendly houses where they amused the owners.
They also gathered in coffee shops where they ate, sang and
danced.
Easter
The days before Easter all the houses were cleaned out and
on Holy Thursday the housewives painted the eggs (usually
red), which they would clink after the Resurrection service.
On Holy Friday they prepared the rusks, the holy bread and
the “flaounes” (pastry with cheese and raisins).
Palm Sunday
On Palm Sunday, women took leaves from olive trees to the
church. The leaves would remain in the church until Pentecost
when they would be hallowed and taken back home for the traditional
“kapnisma” (literally smoking). Specifically, the leaves from
the olive tree were put in the “kapnistiri” (earthen-plated
vessel) with cinder and used for the “kapnisma” of the houses
and people. This practice is considered as apostrophic for
the evil spirits and it survives to this day.
On Holy Thursday, the holy
icons of the church are covered with a black veil indicating
the bereavement of the faithful. The same night, a replica
of the holy cross with Christ on is set. On the right of the
cross there is a replica of Apostle John and on the left another
replica of Virgin Mary.
All the habitants of the village go to church
and genuflect before the holy cross and attend to the service
of the 12 gospels concerning the Passion of Christ, His Crucifixion
and His death.
On Holy Friday the faithful
decorates the epithaph. Young men and women chant the dirge
(lamentation), while three myrrh-bearing women strew the epitaph
with myrrh, aromas and flowers. During the night the procession
of the epitaph takes place in the central roads of the village.
On Holy Saturday the bells
toll merrily in order to invite the Christians to the happiest
service of the Christian church.
Outside of the church there is a big fire,
called “Lampratzia” (eastern bonfire). At midnight the priest
says “ defte lavete fos ek tou anesperou fotos” (come forward
and receive light from the eternal light) and comes out of
the church with the lay clerks for the Procession. People
light their candles from the holy light and they all go in
the yard of the church for the Resurrection Ceremony.
After the service, people return to their
homes, with their candles and keep the holy light for 40 days.
They eat the traditional soup “avgolemoni” (made with eggs,
lemon and rice) or trachana and flaounes. Then they clink
their eggs saying “CHRISTOS ANESTI” “ALITHOS ANESTI”
which mean, “Christ is risen” and
“Truly he is risen”.
On Sunday, they make the traditional lamb
on charcoals and they celebrate the day. In the afternoon,
the Community Council organizes some events, including traditional
games, such as “ligri”, “plaka”, “voskos” “zizirous”, “kouroupatsi”,
“koutsia”, in the village’s plaza.
On Easter Monday, it is Saint George’s feast
day and there is a celebrating mass in the chapel of the saint.
The chapel is placed on the southwest of the community. It
is one of the most celebrating days of the village.
TRADITIONAL WEDDING
“Proxenio” (match-making)
The matchmaker, a relative, or a close friend of the bride’s
family made the “Proxenio”. A good groom was considered a
man, who was rich, from a good family and diligent. If the
groom came from another village, the parents of the bride
went to his village and asked his fellow villagers for any
information they wanted to learn about him or his family.
Most of the times, the girl’s opinion was not taken into consideration.
Betrothal (“logiasma”)
Close relatives such as the groom and bride’s godparents,
uncles and aunts, grandparents, brothers and sisters and the
priest of the village were invited in the pre-engagement.
The priest would prepare the prenup, which had legal validity.
In the prenup the parents noted the marriage portion that
they would give to their children. After the pre-engagement,
there was a big party with plenty of food and songs.
Engagement
Only a few people were invited in the engagement. The father
of the bride and the groom invited their friends while visiting
their houses. They hold “mereha” (bottle where perfume was
kept). During the engagement the relatives exchanged handkerchiefs
and rings. If the parents of the bridegroom were rich, they
gave to their children ground, animals, kitchen utensils and
tools for agriculture works. In older times, the parents of
the groom built the house of the couple but later the construction
was a responsibility of the bride’s parents. The construction
of the house was not an easy job as it was built with stones,
which were collected and transferred usually by the close
relatives and the builders.
Preparations for the wedding
The preparations started one month before the wedding day.
The relatives of the couple used to wash the sheep fleece,
which would be used for the “filling” of the bed. When they
finished washing, the fleece remained in the sun until it
was completely dry.
The invitations were given from the bridegroom’s
parents with a special procedure. When they visited the houses
to give the invitations, they offered to the owners a special
kind of bread called “glistarka” and also wine from a special
wine-jar called “kolotzi”.
On the wedding day they took the “kolotzi” to the church and
after the wedding they offered wine to their guests. They
also offered another kind of bread called “koumoulla”.
Saturday (before the wedding day)
On Saturday the relatives “sewed” the bed, which was filled
with pure sheep’s wool. The bridegroom’s relatives put money
on the bed (“plumisma”) as a gift for their wedding.
Thereafter, the groom’s closest friends
and his best men danced holding on the same time the bed.
When they finished their dance it was the bridesmaids turn
to take it. Just before this dance, a young boy or girl was
put on the bed of the bridegroom. People believed that if
they put a boy on the bed, the first child of the new couple
would be a boy and if they put a girl, then the couple would
have a girl.
Sunday (wedding day)
Dressing of the bride
In the afternoon of the wedding day, the relatives of the
bride were gathered in her parents’ house for the bride’s
preparation. The bridesmaids helped her wear her wedding dress,
put her make up and jewels and make her hair, accompanied
by musicians who played violin and lute. Then, her parents
passed along her waist a red belt and they gave their bless
for a happy married life.
The shaving of the groom
The early morning of the wedding day, the groom’s clothes
were transferred form his parents’ house to the new house
of the couple.
The shaving of the groom took place in his parents’ house
and it also included his dressing. The barber of the village,
accompanied by violins, shaved him and his best friends combed
him. The best man dressed him (shirt and costume), and in
the meanwhile he sang with the other relatives, traditional
wedding songs.
After the wedding and on the way to their
new home, the couple was blessed by the neighbors who held
“mereha” (bottle where they kept perfume) and “kapnistiri”.
Later on, the couple stayed alone in their new home while
the other relatives were celebrating.
Monday after the wedding
On Monday after the wedding day, the bridesmaid had to make
some special pies (“pittes”) and grape honey and take them
to the couple’s house. On the same day the bride should let
free two white pigeons.
Tuesday after the wedding day or
antigamos
On Tuesday after the wedding day the relatives took chicken
from the fellow villagers, they butchered them, cooked them
and ate them altogether during a big party.
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